How do you decide whether the girl you are currently seeing is really girlfriend material? This is one of life’s biggest questions, up there alone with how we came to be here, and why people go to One Direction concerts. However, at least this question has a few answers, or at least a few pointers that can point you in the right direction as to whether she is worth it or not.When you start seeing a girl, it might be that you are only interested in one thing. But as time passes, and love blossoms, you move to think of her in more than just a physical way, and come to cherish her. You will start to feel that she has all the best traits of a girlfriend, but it can be difficult to work out whether this is just your hormones convincing you, or whether she really is as good as she seems. But if she has these three qualities, then you can be assured that you are making the right decision by being with her…
She Gives You Space
It might be strange deciding that she is the right girl for you because she leaves you alone, but every guy knows it’s true. We all need space, and it is even more important in a relationship than out of it. When you are on your own, you have all the space in the world, but when you are coupled up, then you have to carve out your own part of the world, lest you be entirely subsumed in the ‘couple’.We have all seen it happen to fellow men. There every move of every day is planned out for them by their girlfriend or wife, and they cannot go out and do their own thing. They disappear from the bar, from the gym, and from their friends. You might see them once in a while, but always with their significant other in tow. The desperation in their eyes is obvious to other guys, but they just cannot escape.The best girlfriends know when their man needs some alone time, or some buddy time, and allows them that space. This is borne of trust. The women that latch on to their men, never letting them out of their sight are the ones that are fearful worried that the man will stray when he is gone. The good girls know that he is always coming back.
She Likes You
This one should be obvious, but it is unfortunately one that many men miss out when they are looking for a girlfriend. The girl make be happy to hook up with you, she might even be OK with a few dates, but she is also always looking past you, looking for what else is on offer. This is most evident when the two people are not quite on the same attractiveness level. Maybe she is an 8, and he is a passable 6. If so, she will always be looking for another 8 to hook up with and the guy will always be in love with her.Therefore you need to make sure that the girl really does like you. Is she interested in what you have to say? Does she laugh at your jokes, even the terrible ones? Is she happy to just lounge around with you, not always looking for something better to come alone. These are the signs that you need to look out for if you want to be sure that the girl really does like you. If she does, and if she shows it, then she really could be girlfriend material.
OK, so if you’ve got this one then you might put all the other ones aside. We all want a hot girlfriend, but we can’t all get one. But this might have less to do with looks, and more to do with personality. Women want to be treated special, they want men who take an interest in them, and they want a guy who with move heaven and earth for them. If you are willing to do such things, it matters not that she is a supermodel and you are descended from the Quasimodos, you may well still be in with a chance.